"Using life experiences to inspire, encourage and educate others is why I write. I believe sharing our stories helps us to realize we're not alone; that others have struggled, hurt, failed and got back up and found their way. I hope my stories make you think, laugh and feel grateful. - Deana LandersFeatured Short Story
Separation Anxiety Not Just Kids Stuff
The first day of college was pretty much the same as the first day of grammar school in our family. There was anxiety, fear of the unknown, tears, and a slight longing to retreat into that comfortable place at home called the nest.
It is called separation anxiety. We understand it completely when our children cling to us the first time we are separated from them.
But what do we call it when it happens to the parents? It is labeled the “empty nest” syndrome. I experienced symptoms with each child as we packed up the boxes, loaded them in the truck, and made the journey to their new life as a college student.
I was proud and grateful that our children were continuing their education and becoming mature, independent adults. Still, with each box, they were taking a part of my identity as a mom.
Even though I had a career as a nurse, with a busy life as a pastor's wife, being a mom was what I loved the most. Our family and friends laughed and teased me about it, and I worked hard to shrug it off, but it was genuine.
Our daughter was the first and probably the most difficult for me. We struggled through the years of her tugging for her i...
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